Am I stubborn? Do I reason?
Who is in control?
Me or God?
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.  (Pro 22:15)

For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. 
(Hbr 4:12)

Is not my word like as a fire? saith the LORD; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces?  
(Jer 23:29)

But there were certain of the scribes sitting there, and reasoning in their hearts,  
(Mark 2:6)

And when he had called all the people unto him, he said unto them, Hearken unto me every one of you, and understand: There is nothing from without a man, that entering into him can defile him: but the things which come out of him, those are they that defile the man. If any man have ears to hear, let him hear. And when he was entered into the house from the people, his disciples asked him concerning the parable. And he saith unto them, Are ye so without understanding also? Do ye not perceive, that whatsoever thing from without entereth into the man, it cannot defile him; Because it entereth not into his heart, but into the belly, and goeth out into the draught, purging all meats? And he said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness: All these evil things come from within, and defile the man. 
(Mark 7:14-23)

All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits. 
(Pro 16:2)

Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. 
(Psa 51:10)

But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.  
(Hebrews 12:8)

And whosoever shall fall on this stone shall be broken: but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder. 
(Matthew 21:44)

And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. 
(Luk 14:27)

And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. 
(Luke 9:23)

Thou hast laid me in the lowest pit, in darkness, in the deeps.
(Psalms 88:6)

For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
(Luke 14:11)

Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty:  
(Job 5:17)

My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction: 
(Proverbs 3:11)

And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby. 
(Hebrews 12:5,7,11)

Behold, we put bits in the horses’ mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
(James 3:3)

There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.  
(Romans 8:1,4)

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.
(Galatians 5:16,25)

The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.  
(Psalms 34:18)

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.  
(Psalms 51:17)

Reproach hath broken my heart; and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none.
(Psalms 69:20)

For thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones. 
(Isaiah 57:15)

For all those things hath mine hand made, and all those things have been, saith the LORD: but to this man will I look, even to him that is poor and of a contrite spirit, and trembleth at my word.
(Isaiah 66:2)

My soul melteth for heaviness: strengthen thou me according unto thy word.
(Psalms 119:28)

That I have great heaviness and continual sorrow in my heart. 
(Romans 9:2)

Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. 
(James 4:9)

Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations: 
(1 Peter 1:6)

In journeyings often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils  by mine own countrymen, in perils by the heathen, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren;   
(2 Corinthians 11:26)

And thou shalt remember all the way which the LORD thy God led thee these forty years in the wilderness, to humble thee, and to prove thee, to know what was in thine heart, whether thou wouldest keep his commandments, or no. Who fed thee in the wilderness with manna, which thy fathers knew not, that he might humble thee, and that he might prove thee, to do thee good at thy latter end; 
(Deuteronomy 8:2,16)

If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. 
(2 Chronicles 7:14)

Because thine heart was tender, and thou didst humble thyself before God, when thou heardest his words against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, and humbledst thyself before me, and didst rend thy clothes, and weep before me; I have even heard thee also, saith the LORD. 
(2 Chronicles 34:27)

When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up; and he shall save the humble person.
(Job 22:29)

LORD, thou hast heard the desire of the humble: thou wilt prepare their heart, thou wilt cause thine ear to hear: 
(Psalms 10:17)

Better it is to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud.  
(Proverbs 16:19)

Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 
(Matthew 18:4)

But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.   
(James 4:6,10)

Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: 
(1 Peter 5:5-6)

And when he had said these words, the Jews departed, and had great reasoning among themselves. 
(Acts 28:29)